We should think of good, try to feel goodness, and also dream of good stuff, for our Lord (Creator) takes those as suggestions, and it happens…
"What you think, you become. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you create." - Buddha
Nothing is free; if you have paid for it well, you will definitely receive it, whether it’s today, tomorrow, or in the future. So, remember to pay well as per your desire! Only prepayment is acceptable!! Have patience; the delivery will come.
"You must pay for everything in this world one way or another. There is nothing free except the grace of God. You cannot earn that or deserve it." - Charles Portis
This world is a marketplace, and we are pretending to be buyers, where actually we’re selling products, and also, we are the products.
Create value within yourself; people would love to take a selfie with you!!
Do not earn hatred; it will make you heavy. Rather, earn love; that will make you fly. It’s really hard to fly with a heavy heart; you cannot be happy making others cry!!
In most cases we have two lives to lead or to be a part of them. One is personal life, and another one is professional life. Some may have other additional lives like secret relationship, separate family life, etc.
We are always asked to balance our professional life and personal life or others. But in fact, this is not possible, because you cannot be present in two places at the same time.
We must try to combine the lives into one to make our life easy. If we are hiding something, we must avoid those, for surely, those are not good. Again, if we are sure that those are good, legible, we must not hide them.
Be simple, be humble, be happy.
The people we see around are mostly not real, the colour we see in them is not real, the happiness we see in them is not real; all these are a part of the mask that they wear or our imagination that we desire to see.
We must not compare ourselves with what we see and get puzzled with the colorful dresses that they wear, for those are not real.
In our life, we should set a real target to make our life colourful. We should remember the concept of SMART for setting up targets.
The colour of our life should come from our inside. The happiness and colour we see all around cannot make us happy.
Be happy! Be so much happier that when others see you, they also become happy.
We should always try to understand and accept our limits first. It will help us to avoid frustrations for failures.
There are many situations we face where we feel helpless, and doing anything with that situation makes the situation even worse.
Believe in yourself.
Because if you don't, why will other people do it?
At times, it appears that we don’t know the actual purpose of our life. Being purposeless, we do misdeeds for nothing, non-value-added, sometimes destructive. This is somehow better compared to some of us, who misinterpret the actual purpose of life. This is not so easy to identify the actual purpose of every action. An individual action may have different purposes: for you, for your dependents, for your surroundings, and overall—for life.
Identify the actual purpose of our life and add some value to it.
Be simple, be humble, be happy.
When it's your choice, why not choose to be happy!
Without input, you cannot expect to have an output!
Sometimes, we remain super honest and loyal to our life, while life wants us to be dishonest, and in between, we miss the happiness!
"Clarity of thoughts is one of the key factors of happiness."
We all have some expectations of the people we live with, like friends, family, colleagues, etc. And when the expectations are not fulfilled, we become frustrated.
Don’t we know that they (the people we live with) are also humans, and they might have their own expectations too?
Out of frustration, we generally stop talking with each other when only discussions can solve these confusions!
At times, it appears that we do not have any strength; only weaknesses are all around. When we feel that, we cannot do any single task perfectly!!
At this point, we must find a leader. It’s always better to follow a leader than sit idle. At least, there will be a 50% chance of our success.
Helpless doesn’t mean you don’t know who or what might help you; these types of situations can be defined as difficult times.
Helpless means that you already know, “Nothing or no one can help you.”.
Such situations are very rare! And when it comes, it’s over!
"What got you here won't get you there."We need to have some actions in the right direction. And when the activities are restricted, we need to find alternatives, maybe digital!!
Sometimes, it appears that within a team or family, a group of people is contributing less while at the end of the day, they’re appreciated more…
Mostly, it happens because we cannot see the full picture or don’t have the patience to see it till the end.
Transparency cannot solve many problems where the lack of trust exists!
Great power comes with great responsibilities and vice versa. However, the reality is that we are not superheroes and we won’t suddenly acquire superpowers!
So, we don’t have many choices. If we want to get more power, prosperity, and positions, we need to take more responsibilities.
In our life there are so many problems, and most of those are not credited by us!!
This means we don’t have control over everything in our lives. Being good to us only will not ensure a smooth life. In addition, we need to be proactive in doing good to others also.
This may not make our life better immediately, but it will start the process right away to make our life journey peaceful.
Doing good to others is actually beneficial for us!
I just realized that most of the situation and problems are rooted in the question word ‘Why,’ and most of the situation and problems are solved by answering the question word ‘How!’
Can we strive to answer the question word “How” and avoid asking the question word “Why” in every sphere of our life? It’s difficult, right?
No one likes to answer to others, but they love to explain for themselves!!